We-Vibe is arguably one of the best couples’ toys ever made and the first of its kind. Created by a Canadian couple, this innovative line of vibrators is designed for dual stimulation, allowing both partners to enjoy the experience simultaneously during various activities.
The Unique Concept & Design
The We-Vibe‘s unique U-shaped design has been loosely copied by several companies. It consists of a flexible silicone body with a vibrating motor in each end. Its primary function is to be worn during intercourse. The inner arm is inserted into the vagina, aiming to stimulate the G-spot, while the outer arm rests on the clitoris. As the internal arm vibrates, the male partner also feels the vibrations along his shaft as he thrusts. This shared sensation is intended to be a bonding experience.
The first three models were nearly identical, with one end slightly wider and a thin middle section to allow for comfortable penile insertion. The We-Vibe 4 features a redesigned, much smaller internal portion, which is meant to provide a more snug fit for her and more room internally for her partner.
Beyond intercourse, the We-Vibe can be used as an oral sex aid for both partners. One end can be pressed against her clitoris while he uses his mouth on the rest of her vulva, or she can grip the base of his shaft with the toy while performing fellatio. It can also be used for solo masturbation.
I once gave a We-Vibe to a family member who was ill, and their partner later thanked me with tears in their eyes. The toy provided a way for them to be physically intimate and share a connection during a time when traditional lovemaking was difficult. It is a testament to the versatility of this toy and its ability to facilitate intimacy.
We-Vibe Models: At a Glance
| Feature | We-Vibe 2 & 3 | We-Vibe 4 |
| Design | U-shaped with a long internal arm (3″) | U-shaped with a shorter internal arm (2.75″) |
| Material | Shiny silicone | Matte silicone |
| Vibration | 2/5 to 3/5 strength | Closer to 4/5 strength |
| Controls | Button on toy, optional remote for 2+ & 3 | Remote with 4 buttons (up/down/right/left) |
| Charging | Rechargeable, dock for Model 3 | Rechargeable toy, remote uses a replaceable lithium battery |
| Warranty | 6 months to 1 year | 1 year |
Vibration and Controls
The motors on all models are controlled simultaneously. The We-Vibe 2, 3, and 4 all have a discreet push button on the end of the external portion. The We-Vibe 2 Plus and 3 came with a simple single-button remote, while the We-Vibe 4 has a more advanced, four-button remote that allows you to change the strength and patterns of each motor individually. The We-Vibe 4 remote works up to 10ft away.
All versions are impressively quiet, with a maximum noise level of 1.5/5. The vibrations are strong but not buzzy, offering a pleasant hum. All models are waterproof, but the remotes are not, only water-resistant.
Charging and Care
All We-Vibe models are rechargeable and come with a one-year warranty. The We-Vibe 2 and 2 Plus charger plugs directly into one end of the toy, while the We-Vibe 3 has a convenient plastic charging stand for both the toy and the remote. The We-Vibe 4 has a rechargeable toy and a remote that uses a replaceable battery. The charging case for the 4 has a light that blinks while charging and becomes steady when full.
A full charge takes approximately 4–6 hours and provides at least 2–3 hours of use. It’s a good idea to keep the vibrator in the charger when not in use, much like a cordless phone, so it’s always ready.
Clean-up is easy since all generations are completely waterproof. You can use antibacterial soap and water or a 10% bleach or peroxide solution. Commercial toy cleaners are fine, but you can also make your own by adding a few drops of tea tree oil and eucalyptus oil to a bottle of antibacterial soap and water.
Experience and Versatility
The We-Vibe 2 and 3 were not strong enough to bring me to orgasm on their own, but the We-Vibe 4 was a pleasant surprise. It stayed in place quite nicely and provided an extremely pleasant buzz on both contact points during intercourse. My partner found that it made me even tighter and loved the vibrations.
The We-Vibe 2 and 3 are more flexible than the 4, making them easier to use for masturbation or during cunnilingus. However, the material change on the 4 makes it smoother for other uses, such as for fellatio.
The We-Vibe is a versatile addition to any collection. For a complete mini traveling toybox, I would suggest a We-Vibe 4, a good bullet vibrator, a reliable silicone-safe lube, and a good stim gel.
Overall, the We-Vibe 4 is a significant improvement on its predecessors, offering a stronger vibration and a more secure fit. It is a fantastic couples’ toy that truly enhances the experience for both partners.